by Toria Peters | Oct 24, 2020 | Relationships and the Five Elements Philosophy
Enjoying time alone can mean having room to read, rest, think or do something at your own pace. You do not have to turn that preference into a problem, a personality test or proof that you no longer need other people. A useful question is whether the time feels chosen...
by Toria Peters | Oct 2, 2020 | Relationships and the Five Elements Philosophy
When someone does not return your romantic feelings, it can hurt to let go of what you hoped might happen. You cannot choose their feelings for them, and you do not have to make your own feelings disappear on demand. You can choose how you respond, what contact you...
by Toria Peters | Jul 25, 2020 | Relationships and the Five Elements Philosophy
A relationship can have affection, enjoyable moments and genuine uncertainty about its future. You may want to understand a recurring concern, discuss a different arrangement or decide to leave. No checklist can make that personal choice for you. Start with your...
by Toria Peters | May 31, 2020 | Relationships and the Five Elements Philosophy
After a breakup, you might feel sadness, relief, anger, uncertainty or several of these at once. You do not have to describe the ending as a blessing, wish your ex well immediately or become cheerful on a schedule. Start with what would make daily life more...
by Toria Peters | Mar 28, 2020 | Relationships and the Five Elements Philosophy
When a relationship leaves you carrying too much or worrying that you are not good enough, a clearer conversation may help you understand what each person needs. Start with one situation and one request, rather than trying to settle your worth or the entire future of...
by Toria Peters | Mar 20, 2020 | Relationships and the Five Elements Philosophy
Getting to know yourself can help you explain what you want from dating and notice whether a relationship fits your life. You can keep learning while you date. You do not need a complete set of answers before you deserve companionship. Use these ten prompts as a...
