After a Setback: Review What Happened and Choose Your Next Step

After a Setback: Review What Happened and Choose Your Next Step

A setback can leave you disappointed, embarrassed or unsure what to do next. You do not have to call it a gift, find a lesson immediately or prove your determination by repeating the same attempt. Once there is room to think, a useful review separates what happened...
When Depression Makes Motivation Hard: Small, Flexible Steps

When Depression Makes Motivation Hard: Small, Flexible Steps

Depression can make starting a task feel unusually difficult. Even something you want to do may seem too demanding. That does not mean you are lazy or that a more positive attitude would make everything easy. Small adjustments may make an activity more manageable, but...
Gratitude Without Pressure: Simple Practices You Can Choose

Gratitude Without Pressure: Simple Practices You Can Choose

Gratitude can be a way to notice something you value: a kind message, a familiar place, a moment of comfort or help you received. You can explore it without requiring yourself to feel cheerful or to describe a difficult experience as a gift. Choose an approach that...
Creating Goals in a Healthy Way

Creating Goals in a Healthy Way

A goal can give some structure to something you care about: learning a skill, spending time with someone or making an everyday task easier. It does not have to begin with a judgment that your present life is wrong. Give the goal enough detail to act on, and enough...
Eating for Everyday Energy: Balanced Meals and Practical Choices

Eating for Everyday Energy: Balanced Meals and Practical Choices

Food supplies the energy your body uses, and everyday eating needs to fit your time, preferences and resources. A useful starting point is a varied pattern of meals you can prepare and enjoy, rather than a list of expensive foods with special promises. If you are...
The Law of Attraction: One Hope, One Practical Step

The Law of Attraction: One Hope, One Practical Step

The law of attraction may be a meaningful belief or a name you use for imagining what you want. You can keep that sense of possibility while making decisions from the circumstances in front of you. A hopeful picture is a starting point for reflection, not a guarantee...
Rebuilding Confidence After a Setback

Rebuilding Confidence After a Setback

A rejection, breakup, difficult work experience or other setback can leave you doubting something you used to feel able to do. You do not have to become confident about everything at once. Choose one part of life where you would like a little more room to participate,...
Opening Your Olympic Spirit

Opening Your Olympic Spirit

In order to make it into the Olympics, people that are in sports will have to have the commitment, mindset, and determination to win. This is a hard experience, and it takes tons of sacrifice. Not many people are able to reach inside and really grab onto that...
Don’t Let Guilt Stop You

Don’t Let Guilt Stop You

Do you feel guilty for something that you did or even something that you didn’t do? As you live your life, there will be things that you regret. Everyone has made mistakes and when you do, this is a time of growth and understanding your life. The problem is that with...
How to Have Self-Love

How to Have Self-Love

Self-love is something that you can do and something that is often talked about. Some people wonder why you don’t love yourself more while others believe that you need to strive harder to love yourself more or equal to your friends or loved ones. It can be tiring to...