by Toria Peters | May 1, 2021 | Life Coaching
Wanting to feel happier today is understandable. It does not mean you can switch off sadness, worry or exhaustion on demand. A more useful starting point is to ask what might make this particular day a little more comfortable, connected or manageable. Choose one idea...
by Toria Peters | Apr 30, 2021 | Life Coaching
A happier life can mean more than feeling cheerful. You might be looking for reliable support, a little enjoyment, time to rest or a sense that your choices reflect what matters to you. Different circumstances call for different changes, and no single routine can...
by Toria Peters | Apr 8, 2021 | Life Coaching
Feeling unlike yourself can be a reason to pause and ask what you need. It is not proof that you are being false. Awkwardness, indecision, dissatisfaction and wanting privacy can have different meanings in different circumstances. Use these questions as prompts for...
by Toria Peters | Mar 7, 2021 | Life Coaching
Waiting for an answer, facing a change or not knowing where a relationship is going can be unsettling. You may want certainty before making any decision, while everyday life keeps asking you to choose what to do next. You can make room for unanswered questions without...
by Toria Peters | Feb 20, 2021 | Life Coaching
Fear of failure can make an ordinary next step feel much larger: sending an application, sharing unfinished work or asking someone on a date. Start by identifying the situation and what you are worried might happen. You do not need to become fearless before making a...
by Toria Peters | Feb 11, 2021 | Life Coaching
Being kind to yourself can begin with noticing what you need, speaking to yourself more fairly and keeping room for your own choices. You can practise those things while caring about other people. You do not have to achieve perfect self-love before you are worthy of...
by Toria Peters | Feb 3, 2021 | Life Coaching
When you want to give up on a goal or commitment, start by asking what feels unmanageable and what you need now. You can pause, ask for help, change the plan or stop something that no longer fits. Continuing is one option, and it does not have to be your only measure...
by Toria Peters | Jan 29, 2021 | Relationships and the Five Elements Philosophy
Thinking about someone can be enjoyable, distracting or painful. You may be excited about a new connection, missing an ex or replaying an uncertain conversation. The useful question is how the thoughts are affecting your day and what, if anything, you want to do next....
by Toria Peters | Jan 24, 2021 | Life Coaching
Helping a child build confidence does not mean keeping them cheerful all the time or preventing every difficult feeling. Children need room to be disappointed, frustrated and unsure while learning how to respond. Your role is to offer care, clear guidance and...
by Toria Peters | Dec 21, 2020 | Life Coaching
Work and personal life rarely divide into equal halves. A demanding week, an unpredictable shift or extra care responsibilities can change what is possible. Balancing your career and your life starts with seeing those pressures clearly and making arrangements that the...